the vegas sixLas Vegas, NV · 6 girls
"a bachelor party bought us a round, then tapped again. and again. we stopped counting."
pooled$1,840
tap a band, treat the bride.
tap-to-gift wristbands for the bride & her besties
psst: the people you meet will want to treat you. trust us. here's how ✦
the best part
the people you meet will want to treat you. trust us.
Someone at the bar always wants to buy the bride a round. Sashay makes saying yes effortless: no app for them, no account, no awkward "what's your venmo?" They tap, it lands in your party's wallet, and you keep dancing.
- 1they tap a bandany phone, no download
- 2they pick an amountApple Pay, Google Pay or card
- 3it's in your walletthe whole squad sees it, live
Gifts are voluntary and totally up to the people you meet. Every night is different, so how much a party receives varies and results aren't guaranteed.
the bachelor party next doortapped the band
+$60the bartender's cousintapped the band
+$20Maya's momvia share link
+$50a very generous strangertapped the band
+$25example only · not a real party
one tap, two screens
their phone meets your band
They hold their phone to the band on your wrist. Their screen opens a gift page. Yours lights up the second it lands.
the treater's screen
the girls' screen
the not-awkward part
wait, isn't it weird to ask strangers for money?
Nobody's asking. No tip jar, no pitch, no "can I get your venmo?" The band just sits on your wrist. When someone wants to treat the bride (and someone always does), it gives them an easy, low-key way to say yes. Want a break? Freeze your band in one tap.
nobody asks, they offerno handles or last names sharedfreeze your band anytimethe bride never has to hustle
lost a band? it's a bracelet, not a wallet. The chip only holds a link, and you can freeze it in one tap.
how it works
three steps, then go be iconic
1
start the fund
The planner (hi, maid of honor) creates the party and verifies once. She's the admin.
2
band up
Everyone wears a Sashay band with a tiny chip inside. Claim yours in seconds and add your first name.
3
they tap, you toast
Someone wants to treat the group? They tap a band, pick an amount, done. Apple Pay, Google Pay or card.
the glow-up
the venmo-QR-on-a-sash era is so over
The generosity is already there. Someone at the next table always wants to treat the bride. Nobody built the plumbing. Until now.
the old way
- Strangers see the bride's full name and profile
- Everything goes to one girl's personal account
- Sunday brunch turns into a spreadsheet
- Nobody else knows what came in
the sashay way
- A cute gift page with first names only
- Gifts land in the party's fund, not someone's personal account
- Every girl sees every gift, live
- They give the money. The bride picks the drink.
the wallet
every gift, live, for the whole squad
- Live balance + feed. Every tap pops up with who sent it, whose band, and their note.
- Band leaderboard. Bragging rights for whoever's band is pulling the most.
- A share link for the moms, the cousin abroad, and the girls who couldn't make it.
- One admin withdraws to her bank when the weekend's done. No splitting mid-trip.
party walletmaya's last rodeo · vegas
$412
+$140 tonight
- 🤠the bachelor party next dooron Maya's band · "congrats!!"$60
- 💖Jordanon Nina's band · "for the bride"$20
- ✨someone lovelyon Priya's band$10
- 🌷Aunt Lindavia share link · "have fun, be safe!"$50
who can do what
one admin, zero drama
Whoever sets up the wallet is the admin. Everyone else joins as the bride or the crew.
| Ability | bride | crew | admin |
|---|---|---|---|
| See the balance + every gift | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ |
| Get taps on her band | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ |
| Freeze her own band | ✓ | ✓ | any band |
| Invite or remove members | — | — | ✓ |
| Withdraw the fund | — | — | ✓ |
| Close the fund | — | — | ✓ |
made for nights like these
the bride, the besties, and the whole bar cheering them on
Photos via Unsplash.
picture it
what a night could look like
Examples of how a weekend with Sashay can play out, from whole squads to one girl whose band stole the show.
These are made-up examples to show how Sashay works, not real customers, quotes or results. Every night is different, gifts are up to the people you meet, and amounts aren't guaranteed.
nashville honky-tonk crewNashville, TN · 8 girls
"every bar on broadway had someone who wanted to treat the bride."
pooled$1,525
maya + her girlsScottsdale, AZ · 7 girls
"my band won the leaderboard. the girls are still mad about it."
pooled$960
miami pool dayMiami, FL · 5 girls
"the cabana next to us chipped in for our bottle. strangers are the best."
pooled$740
jess + the austin crewAustin, TX · 9 girls
"i'm the maid of honor. zero venmo math. i cried a little."
pooled$1,260
the nola bridesmaidsNew Orleans, LA · 6 girls
"a brass band, a parade, and a whole lot of taps."
pooled$2,150
founding groups
be one of our first 10 groups: free bands for your trip
In return: a quote, a few photos, and (if you're cool with it) your real total, so the next group sees real stories here instead of examples. Nothing gets posted without your ok.
pricing
priced like a round of shots, not a bridesmaid dress
1 band per girl1 wallet0 venmo math
$6
per band
- One band for every girl, bride included
- The bride can get her own color
- The party wallet + gift page, included
- A small Sashay fee comes out of each gift as it lands in your wallet. Treaters pay exactly what they pick.
a note from the founder
"I've watched enough bachelorette groups get bought a round by total strangers, then spend twenty minutes figuring out who paid for what. The generosity is already there. Nobody built the plumbing. So that's Sashay: the plumbing, dressed up for a night out."xo, Ambar
sashay a-listers
your followers plan the trip, you bring the bands
- Your own code + link for followers planning a bach.
- Commission on every band order placed with your code.
- Bands for your own trip, on us.
bach creators, planners + bridal pros
We're hand-picking our first creator besties now. Tell us where to find you and we'll send the deets.
get creator details
faq
ok but how?
does the person giving need an app?
Nope. They tap the band, a gift page opens in their browser, and they chip in with Apple Pay, Google Pay or a card. No download, no account.
what do strangers see about us?
Only the first name each girl picks for her band, plus your city if you want it shown. Never a photo, a last name, or anyone's account details.
what if someone loses a band?
Freeze it from the wallet in one tap. The band only holds a link, so there's nothing on it to steal.
who gets the money at the end?
The admin (usually the maid of honor) withdraws the fund to her bank. Everyone sees every gift along the way, so there's no drama.
what does it cost?
Bands are $6 each, one for every girl in the group. A small Sashay fee comes out of each gift as it lands in your party wallet, so treaters pay exactly what they pick.
is it only for bachelorettes?
For now, yes. Birthdays, girls' trips and other big nights are next.
when can i get bands?
We're launching soon in the US. Reserve your bands now (no charge today) and you'll be first in line.
how much will strangers actually give?
Honestly? It depends on your night. Gifts are voluntary and totally up to the people you meet, so every party is different and results aren't guaranteed. What we can promise: when someone wants to treat you, it'll be easy, and it'll land in one wallet.
never miss a party
- first bands before launch
- vote on the first designs
- one launch email, that's it
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